Dear Rose Family,
This is the last holiday letter I will write to you as your CEO. I have really struggled trying to find the right words, the best message, a theme. As I began my fifteenth attempt, I wondered what the heck prompted me to start this annual tradition in the first place. It’s a silly idea, really. What CEO writes letters to their staff? What is there to say anyway? Happy Holidays? Thank You? Recounting the accomplishments of the past year? Looking forward to the year ahead?
So, I dragged out my folder of letters from the past. Letters written to The Rose Family since the mid-90s. I can remember how I felt when writing each one of them and what was happening at the time. But none inspired me for this one.
I could talk about how difficult these past two years have been while reminding you that we’ve turned the corner. I could tell you what a privilege it has been to know you and that any legacy I may leave is yours and due to your hard work. I could speak about all the lives we saved throughout these past forty years. But none of that seems enough or right for this letter, this final letter to you.
There is so much I wish I could say to you, and I sure don’t want it to sound like a lecture. I don’t believe in lecturing grown people, it’s an insult. Besides, we all had enough of that as kids!
So, consider these thoughts as Dorothy musings and my parting gift to you.
Never put yourself down. Don’t criticize the way you look, what you do or how you feel. Make it habit to be your own cheer leader, advocate and friend! If not you, then who?
Remember your body believes every word you say. So, saying “I’m tired.” Or “That breaks my heart.” Or “She pisses me off!” is sending a message you don’t really want your body to manifest.
Dream big. Make HUGE goals. Celebrate when they happen. Keep believing until they do.
Rejoice in the good fortune of others. Congratulate them and if a tad bit of envy creeps in, tell yourself: “That’s for me!”
Not every day has to be perfect or fun or filled with success. But no matter how mundane or sad or annoying, appreciate every day.
Never wish time away. The long hours you wish would pass are the same ones someone else wishes they had.
Don’t be afraid to fall in Love. You are never too old to find that special someone who makes your heart sing. Don’t be afraid to love period, whenever you can and whoever you want. Your heart is big enough to hold lots of people.
Expect a miracle. That has been my mantra since The Rose began. We have all seen them happen over and over again. So, keep expecting.
When the world seems the darkest, look for the stars. They have been there for eons and will continue. Their presence will once again remind you of God’s wonderous creations.
Your words have the ability to mend a heart or give hope where despair has lived too long. Choose them wisely.
Never forget the Magic that is you. There never has been or will be another you.
Play.
Until life brings us together again, Much Love.
Dorothy
2025